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I have been dating this guy
now for just over seven months. We both had split from our partners
only just two months before and both have children with our ex- partners.
I have one child who lives with me and he has three children who live with
him and this is where my problem starts.
His ex-partner suffered from
bipolar depression and is now under control through tablets but due to
this the children live with my partner as she was too unfit to have them.
She is now well and is also dating someone else.
My problem is she comes
around to my new partner's house (which is also still hers as her name is
still on the deeds but she now lives in her own place with her new guy),
every single day to see the kids. This is nice for the kids but in
my opinion she should be seeing them in her new place she lives in and not
at my partner's house. She still does the pots for my partner, cleans up
his house, does the garden for him and also changes his bedding for him
which I find very weird. To me they are still acting like a family like
they are still together and even though my partner says she is not a
threat to our relationship. I cannot seem to cope with the fact she
is with him every single day and doing things for him.
It's her birthday today so
her family wanted to see her so even they came over to my partner's house
to see her, mum, dad and sister all came over to see her. I couldn't
understand why they didn't go over to her house to see her. My
partner's excuse is they all want to see the kids too, but shouldn't they
be still doing this at her home?
This is really bothering me
and wanted to know if it's me who is being unreasonable by saying this is
not right and they need to make new separate lives?
